Meeting an old friend

A man is a Social Animal involved in the intricacies of e actu ally(prenominal) genial behavior he is expected to involve in. The richness of his social behavior lies in his varied actions which he is expected to be present in the Society-among his family, peers, neighbors, and most sensuous of all admirership. But his mind is a very complex part of the body, which keeps involving the man into varied activities, 24 hours a day.In this hush and bush of your daily chores, one day you come crossways a person while you are in relax humor and enjoying the Exhibition in a Grand Hall at ballpark Avenue. He comes in front of you and suddenly speaks in a louder only a very friendly tone, hi, How are you? And you keep on expression at him. This gaze clearly states that you have been engaged so some(prenominal) in your personal affairs that you not only forgot him but besides his name, and are now trying to recollect his name.He asked you, How are you? And you replied decently, I am v ery well, fine, Thank You. And consequently he will say, I was longing to meet you but could not get time, and you will solution Oh how sweet of you, pull down I was longing to meet you but I got so involved in the pursuit of my career that I did not get time to meet you. It was so hectic in the daub that I did not have a single minute to even breathe. This dialogue dictates your etiquette, though you have forgotten the name of your friend with whom you have spend so precious moments of your life, still you are not trying to show that you have forgotten him.He is making show up that you have forgotten him and he will say, Hey I think you have forgotten me, and why not, we are meeting after such a long time, so it is so natural that you may forget me. I only remembered that we have studied together in school. He puzzleed lecture of good white-haired school days, when we enjoy a lot, have all the fun, played pranks on teachers and the crushes we had on the beautiful girls in o ur school and then he involves you so much in conversation that you forgot you dont remember his name. All of a sudden from my mouth it comes out, Rick.He clams laughing and began to stare at me. I smelled that something was wrong with the name. He in a very low voice says, Hello, I am David, not Rick., then only the name strikes in my memory and I start cursing myself, that he remembered my name and every little things about mine, whereas I completely forgot his name and on the top of it dared not accept the unsuccessful person to recall his name. I wants to apologize but the words stopped flux from mouth and I became speechless. He understands the position and to ease the situation, he starts laughing. I asks for his apology and he accepted to give on one spring that in future I would be honest while limning my feelings.No doubt man feels very embarrassed if he forgets his old time friend but it is also true that with time broadly speaking memory fades in many human beings. This behavior in human beings is explained by Rethinking Interference theory of G. E. Mueller and Pilzecker who claims that man has to involve in proceeds of activities and his brain is thinking all the time. With the passing time sensitive experiences come in into the memory the older begin to erase because the process, which is involved in storing new memories generally disrupts the old consolidation processes, which could have traced the events of our lives remained in our memory storage. (Anderson Michael C, pp. 415-455). whole shebang CITEDAnderson Michael C. Rethinking interference theory Executive control and mechanisms of forgetting. Journal of Memory and Language, 49(2003) 415-455brill A.A. In The Psychopathology of Everyday Life (1901) By Sigmund Freud Internet.Available http//psychology.about.com/ program library/psychologyetexts/bl-everyday01.htm , July 30, 2007